Some say that to avoid heartbreaks is to never open your heart to anyone, but this is a destructive part to follow. We are human beings with blood flowing through our veins. We are bound to catch feelings for people. This might turn out blissful it can also end in disaster.
You never entered the relationship to get hurt. you never knew that events will build up to your down time. I can assure you that it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. This article will help you not to get heartbroken ever again.
1. Invest in yourself.
It is better to be stable in your career and financially before entering any relationship. This will put you in a position of strength in any circumstance. But if this is not the case that does not mean you should not fall in love.
Don’t get carried away with any relationship that you get to take care of yourself. Remember no one wish to settle down with a liability. Invest more in your career and become an irresistible person to him/her.
This will give you stability anytime the relationship crashes. It is better to have something you can hold on to than when you have nothing at all. When you prosper in your career and financially you will always level up with time emotionally.
Love is great; it’s a wonderful feeling, but it shouldn’t be the only thing in your life. Keep your hobbies, interests and follow your own dreams, because you are more than just the other half of a relationship. Your life is your own and, so long as you never lose sight of that, you will always have something else to concentrate on, if love doesn’t quite work out the way you had hoped it would.
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2. Don’t rush into things.
Do not rush things in any relationship, do your own part that is necessary to cement friendship before romance kicks in. Take things easy, even when you think you have met the One. Things can happen so fast, but take your time to be sure its genuine and not make believe.
If you go from first kiss, to moving in with him, within a few days, you are likely to be very disappointed. The idea of whirlwind romances sounds wonderful, but they rarely go the distance. If he really is the One, then he’s not going to mind you taking things slowly at first.
Do not be in the category of people that want to experience love again so badly they end up getting involved with all the wrong people. I can While it is important to move on and be around other people, beware of rebound dating.
Rebound dating is when you jump into a new relationship without getting to know the person in the hopes that this new relationship will heal your broken heart. Unfortunately, rebound dating usually results in another breakup and more heart-break.
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3. Don’t over-analyze.
Some people (and this may be you) are big-time dwellers. They spend hours analyzing every last detail about the relationship. Over-analysis of a broken relationship only leads to confusion, depression, and a massive waste of time.
These people always end up getting confused and coming to the wrong conclusion because they cannot look at the situation in a balanced way. They end up either worshiping their ex or hating them for what has happened. Once you’ve thought through what went wrong with the relationship and what was good about it, let it go or you will cause yourself unnecessary drama and heartache.
4. Don’t give a man or a woman the totality of your heart.
God should be the foundation of all your relationships. Give God the totality of your heart. Love that person but put God first. If you build your foundation in God even when everyone leaves you he will always be there for you.
Do not fall helplessly in a relationship, always remind yourself that you were happy before that relationship. Your happiness and well being should not be dependent on any one.
When someone you love rejects you, it’s easy to overreact. The pain and confusion from a break up can cause you to do just about anything to get your bf/gf back or perhaps to get revenge on your ex by causing them pain. So be sure to think twice before.
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5 Affection is never enough.
Affection is the primary element in love but love is more than than having a deep affection for someone. Also do not base your relationship on sex. Understanding, compatibility, wisdom, patience and tolerance are equally important. Do not believe people from their words, let them earn your trust and prove themselves in little things..
Do not date destructive people. When the negative signs are more than the positive signs. It is better to withdraw your heart before it gets ”broken” Some relationships are simply not worth the drama. You can save yourself a lot of pain if you commit to only dating people who are stable and have their act together.