Don’t wait for your honeymoon to start before discussing Money Matters.
You should have known how you both intend to manage your money after wedding.
Surrendering of salary?
Investment plan, savings, bills etc.
Know your partners financial habit and capacity.
Remember money is the capital of every love.
I asked a lady, “your wedding is approaching, what is the plan about your family altar?”, she said they’ve never talked about it, after almost 4 years of relationship. She didn’t know they should.
Cooperate Bible study, fasting, prayers, talk about it.
Remember family that prayers together stays together.
Are we doing family planning?
Do we start multiplying immediately, or we’ll wait, save and prepare for it….
How many kids? 2 or 12?
How do we bring them up?
What kind of kids do we want to bring up?
Remember the joy of the old age is the standard living of your children.
Don’t wait till your wedding night to start arguing about oral sex and anal sex. Don’t assume they share same viewpoint as you do.
Some People, are turned on when they tie you like somebody that they Kidnap and beat you to stupor like armed robber that they caught in Warri.
Some only get aroused when they are choking you, or you’re choking them.
Talk about their fantasies, tastes, frequency, etc before somebody will kill you in the name of love making.
Remember sexual satisfaction level is yardstick for cheating after marriage.
Don’t assume what is on your mind is what is on their mind.. Even twins self don’t have that kind of telepathic alignment.
Talk about it.. To avoid “I thought”
Remember the way through a man’s heart is stomach (good food)
IN LAWS & LIVING WITH YOU.
Are In-laws allowed or forbidden from coming over to live (short or long term)?
Not everyone wants People around, while there are those who want crowd.
Before your Partner tells you to send your mother/father that came to visit you back.
How do we deal with problematic In-laws?
Remember to think about it when your less busy.